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[quote=Anonymous]My fiancé and I have one daughter together (she is 7) and I have two children (13 and 16) from a previous marriage.  He also has two adult children.

I don’t work and he is the breadwinner.  He has 3 houses and they are all in his name.  I also drive a car that is in his name.  I have nothing.  Yes, I have been stupid, you don’t need to tell me this.  My question is, if I leave the relationship, am I entitled to anything since we aren’t married?

Additionally, We aren’t on the same page when it comes to where we live.  He travels a ton and I hate our state (not in the DMV area).  This is perhaps another thread but I have been here a long time, have always disliked it and feel extremely trapped.  He’s never here because of his work travels.  Since turning 50 earlier this year, i have become a bit depressed and think i would be happier living somewhere else but he’s not on board at all and since he’s the breadwinner he makes the decisions.  He’s extremely controlling but generous.  Oh and one last thing since I’m getting this all out and you’re a bunch of strangers who don’t know me, he won’t show me his will.  If something were to happen to me, I have no idea if I will end up on the street.  As I type this I realize that this is a very good relationship for HIM.  He can have his cake and eat it too. [/quote]

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