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[quote=Anonymous]I had surgery Friday morning to remove a tumor (non cancerous) in my breast under general anesthesia. I have not had surgery other than wisdom teeth taken out and I have never been under GA before.  DH picked me up from the hospital, we got home, and I napped until about 1 pm.

At 3 pm he picks our kids up from the bus stop and brings them home. He then announces his intentions to walk to the pharmacy to pick up my pain meds and the grocery store to pick up some ginger ale and cheerwine. When I start to ask him to get something for dinner, he says well I’m walking there so I can’t carry anything else. I’ll turn around and drive back if I have to. I suggest that maybe he drive there and it’s not the best time to walk (which I can tell you he has NEVER walked to this shopping center- it’s a 15 minute brisk walk) but he says since he’s been at the house while I’ve been napping he hasn’t been able to get his steps in for the day. I am clearly annoyed at this point but I can’t exactly stop him.

So, he walks there. He is gone for TWO HOURS while I have the kids. They are mostly outside playing but I am recovering in bed and they come to bug me every time there is a problem.  He finally gets home and I’m like, wtf took so long???! And he tells me he also got a haircut while he was up there, and there was a really long wait. At this point it’s like 6 pm, there is no dinner plan, and I end up reheating leftovers from the night before while he goes and shoots the breeze with the neighbors for another 30 mins. Doesn’t even bother to heat up my food when I tell him I guess I better go eat those leftovers. At one other point I ask for an ice pack for my breast and he literally brings me a five pound hello fresh ice pack- like what am I supposed to do with that?

I am so irritated. Like- seriously dude? You can’t just spend one day skipping your step count? You have to wait an hour for a haircut while I’m post surgery with two kids at home?

I am so annoyed. And maybe sensitive but I am so frustrated right now. [/quote]

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