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[quote=Anonymous]Yes, I feel this. People like this will also assume that your kid's SN isn't real and is just the result of your bad choices. They assume the reason or autistic 3 year old isn't potty training is because you didn't follow Oh Crap. Or that issues like extreme picky eating are the result of failing to do baby led weaning, or giving too many processed foods. they want to put you on the defensive, justifying your choices, because that just confirms for them that the reason their kid doesn't have these issues is because they made all the "right" choices. It doesn't even matter if you actually did the things they are suggesting (but they didn't work, because your kid has SNs and therefore didn't respond the way their NT kids did), they will assume you did them wrong. I have no patience for people who want to condescend to me about parenting. I only stay friends with people who are willing to assume I know as much about my kid as they do about theirs.[/quote]
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