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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There are no rules.

The last guy I met online turned out to be married. I saw him for a year.

Most men just want sex. So many horrible experiences.

I am done with it. Been divorced 4 years. Mid 40s. [/quote]

This is a you problem, not an app problem.

Anyway.  OP I met my now fiancé on Hinge and we are getting married this year.  Both divorced once before and in our late 40's.  I am the happiest I have ever been.

There is the good news.  Here is the reality, dating on apps in a numbers game.  Like more than you can ever imagine matches and moving on than I ever anticipated.

You will quickly understand that there is zero harm in just matching with someone that seem remotely real or interesting because it is easy to just unmatch if you find out they aren't for you.  It is an investment in time, so be prepared for that.  But weed out people that don't spark anything on the app and then only meet for coffee or a drink so shorten the time spent on the initial meet.  Saves everyone time and money.

I met a few creeps along the way, but I met far more interesting and fun men than I could have ever imagined.  I am friends still with some as we both found we had a fondness, but not a romantic interest.  Keep an open mind and be honest with people.  At this age, those that are looking for a LTR don't have the time to just be strung along.  It is kindest to cut someone off (and be cut off) if the spark is not there after the 2-3 dates.

Best of luck![/quote]

I have mostly met creeps. I am done.
I won’t remarry; I see no advantage to marriage. I have invested a ton of time—it is not like you know more than me because you are getting married. You got lucky. Most people don’t. Apps have ruined normal dating. [/quote]

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