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[quote=Anonymous]Divorced 3 years, just jumping back in.  I dont need to hear all about the guys just wanting hookups or what the rules for sex on the 1st/2nd/3rd dates are - read plenty and am confident enough not to let the turkeys get me down.  I’m mostly curious about the actual app and how people use it.  Like:

women, do you message or like first, or wait for men to reach out first?
if you wait, do you even bother with the ones who just like a photo without a comment, or something lame like ‘hi’ or ‘nice photo’?
if you message first, how often do they respond back?  how long does it usually take if they do?  
is it even worth sending roses to standouts? seems like they must get so many…
if someone messages you a good question about your profile but you don’t find them appealing, do you just ignore, or chat anyway?  
after a chat runs its course and meetup doesn’t seem like a good idea do you officially unmatch or does it happen automatically or not matter either way?
how many chats do you keep going at once?  I’m trying to go slow - dont have time or interest in making this a full time job.  
do middle aged men lie about their age?  I have not, and my range is 10 years younger to older, but I def dont want someone 15 years older.

what else should I know?

thanks![/quote]

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