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[quote=Anonymous]OP, if you know your indecisiveness is tied to anxiety, can you practice with some decisions that have very low stakes? Get your DH to work with you. Tell him he has to have you decide where to go to dinner, or what movie to watch, or which hotel you should stay at on your next trip. Pick one quickly and just enjoy it. Try not to think about whether another restaurant would have been better, or if your husband really wanted X and you picked Y. It's not a big deal. In my experience, people tend to like decisive behavior more than indecisive behavior. (I mean, as long as you're not steamrolling people, but that seems very unlikely.) You'll get some confidence after you do it for a little while. [/quote]
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