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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. He has something stressful going on at work, involving a personnel issue that he's overseeing. Which came up in his apology on Tuesday, citing that as contributing to really high stress levels. But life is stressful, and we surely have more stresses on the horizon as our kids get older, parents get older, etc. Both of us tend to handle outside stresses well as they're occurring but then let them overflow into our moods at home. It's not like I'm going to divorce him over an outburst, but I don't want to normalize today at all. I appreciate that I too have my own conflict responses to deal with and improve on. I know I provoked him with my passive aggressive cleaning of his clutter, but his response feels way disproportional. He's not on any new meds or testosterone or whatever, and our sex life has been fine (a couple times a week) so if this is REALLY all just about some issue with someone who works for him I don't know how to help him.[/quote]
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