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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Last fall DD and her boyfriend broke up. We saw her two months later and I thought she'd gained weight but wasn't positive because it was Thanksgiving and she was wearing thicker and baggier clothing. When she came home for Christmas break it was clear she'd gained 15-20lbs and her skin has broken out horribly. I asked if she was still using the silk pillowcases and washing them regularly, she said yes. We stocked the fridge and pantry with healthy options and DH and I work out each day and always invited her along - sometimes she said yes, sometimes no, but couldn't keep up. I am concerned. Do I say something directly? We have never commented on weight - just eating healthy and moving a lot.[/quote]

And what do you think your talk will accomplish?  If you want estrangement have that talk..otherwise you say nothing because its your daughter's life and she is an adult.  She needs unconditional love from her parents not jugemental ones with conditions.[/quote]

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