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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am going through a divorce, working hard at my job, and building a business, while raising two kids. I really need to focus on improving my financial state right now. I’m realizing I don’t have time for some of my friendships. These are not my closest friends but we’ve been friends for several years and do stuff together as a group. I no longer want to participate in outings or group texts. I’ve tried to slow fade but it’s not working. How do I get out kindly?[/quote] I get like this as well, particularly in rough patches. I feel so mentally, emotionally, and physically taxed that I don't want to be around people that are going to require attention. Like, I don't want to have to seem pleasant to someone else, I don't want to talk about my problems, I just want quiet in my brain. I also don't want to hurt anyone. But there seems to be this belief that being around people (even for tea or a walk) will be a positive. It's not for me.[/quote]
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