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[quote=Anonymous]Counselor here. Please give specifics in brag sheet I can lift into letter. Proud of taking honors class X because it isn’t their top subject? Great. Did X and Y in summer program? Awesome. In outside sports? Tell me exactly how many hours and how often, and what position they play/how good they are (I know nothing about sports). Tell me major and why/what experiences led to this. (I can look it up maybe? Not always accurate and obvious to know that kid is applying for a Y major depending on system.) If they work, I want hours, place, if it’s supporting family, duties. Same for clubs. I want details, things they’re proud of, things they overcame… things I can literally reword into my own words but that I don’t need to ask follow-up questions about (when was X? How was Y hard for you? What was inspiring about Z?) If something happened- COVID, death in family, etc- tell me when it happened and how it affected them, and the meaning of the relationship. Difficulty with class selection or academics they want me to highlight (teacher X was absent most of first semester junior year, had hoped to take Y AP but schedule conflict) The best letters are ones where I can sit down with the brag sheet, open up the transcript/current class schedule to review for rigor, and write from that. It is not hard for me to pull up teacher recs, but I often beat the teachers. I can sometimes pull up their app itself (if they have enabled Common App preview status and added me as an advisor and not just a counselor). Otherwise, all I can see is what schools they applied to- not into major. Resumes are helpful but often don’t tell me HOW a student felt about it. I find the adjectives for how a student describes themselves or how a teacher might describe them helpful to set a tone.[/quote]
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