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[quote=Anonymous]Married nearly 30 yrs.  Together since our 20s. 50s now. Spouse is obese.  I am normal bmi and am healthy weight etc.  He is a great person, kind, good father to our two grown kids. In his 20s he was 10-20lbs overweight. No biggie for me. In his 30s he was 20-30 lbs overweight.  No biggie since he's tall but I was starting to get a little concerned. In his 40s he was 30-40 lbs overweight.  In his 50s he is 50 lbs overweight.  He's been talking about losing weight for 20 years. I've never said anything and have always cooked dialybhealthy meals for us both. Every now and then he'd go on a low carb kick or vegetarian kick or something and I'd join him in solidarity.  He eats healthy bc I cook. But he is a stacker (junk) and likes a nightly beer or two.  He's also got a sweet tooth. Even though I don't buy junk food I'll find it stashed Herr and there in the cabinets. Ill see vending machine charges foe candy on the credit card.

Problem is he has heart disease, nafld and is pre diabetic. His cardiologist said he must lose weight and I thought that would wake him up. He hasn't had a heart attack yet.  I'm so worried but I've been concerned foe 20 plus years and know you can never change someone.  We are still intimate on a regular basis but I fele guilty to say in the past couple years since he hit obese category I do not find him sexually attractive.  I feel really bad about this.

Thoughts? This is beyond "you need to cook healthy food".

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