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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If your children are in school, I would expect you should be able to get all your stuff done during the school age and there should be zero to do on the weekend and in the evenings (save for dinner).

DH and I both work full time in very busy jobs, and we only have about an hour of stuff to tackle on the weekends. If I had a sah spouse of school age kids, and there was any expectation of me doing work on the weekends, I would promptly tell you to go back to work.  Because I would rather do 1 hour of chores on the weekends with my spouse contributing income, than do one or more hours of chores on the weekends with my spouse not contributing income. Sure, we outsource housecleaning and yard work, but - surprise - that is the beauty of having two incomes. You can afford all that plus have lots of money left over. [/quote]

Do you have kids?  
This doesn’t really make sense to me.  A lot of stuff needs to be done nearly every day and at pretty specific times (school pick up and drop off, for example, also meals, wake-up and bedtimes, etc).  You can’t just save it for a few hours on the weekends.

And if you aren’t talking about the day to day childcare and running of a household, and you outsource the housekeeping and yard work, then what are you doing for hours on the weekends?

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