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[quote=Anonymous]I would be giving your husband the benefit of the doubt here. He'd not thinking about his comments as undermining you; he's thinking about them either for his own need to do the chores, or because he's protective of your kids. His motivations may be misplaced, but if that's what's underlying his responses (neutral to positive motivations - protecting your kids!), I wouldn't be looking to attack him like all the PPs. I'd just kindly say that, hey, you may not know how it makes me feel when you do xyz, but it comes across as you undermining me -- at least that's how the kids must hear it. And i don't want to be bad mom to the kids, so i would really appreciate it if you could be mindful of that going forward. [/quote]
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