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[quote=Anonymous]I consider yelling, slamming doors, physical aggression, silent treatment, etc., as ways for a person to "punish" and abuse their partner when they are angry. In therapy DH eventually admitted that he did some of these things with me because he CAN, and the therapist was like "no, you can't, you're in marriage counselling and your marriage is going to end over this," and after that he really never engaged in those behaviors again. But he really wanted to stay married which is why he was in the therapy to begin with. Maybe your DH is not so committed, OP. But you need to stand up for yourself, and be serious about it. The frequency DOES NOT MATTER. One day it WILL be more frequent, because he gets away with this behavior without consequence. So he will rely on it more over time. The silent treatment is very abusive.[/quote]
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