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[quote=Anonymous]I will spare you all the details but we had a "fight" on a family vacation where he said extremely mean things. I'm brokenhearted and just disgusted by his ongoing/recurring emotional dysregulation and inability to communicate without contempt. And apparent narcissism. I had to go on the next day "as normal" because else was I supposed to do on vacation and for the kids. Back home now. Going to schedule therapy for myself. What do I say to him? I just can't bear to fight more, which is what will happen if I point out how awful this was for me. This is not the first time this has happened, and I'm so lost. I'm not ready to go to therapy with him, I feel like I need it for myself first. But maybe I'm wrong and should insist he go too. Thoughts? [/quote]
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