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[quote=Anonymous]I suspect many years of not seeing eye-to-eye are playing into your husband's and your tendencies to poor communication and poor conflict management. He is correct in the childcare decision (icy roads, younger kid has a cold, parental care at home may be better than daycare). He should have looped you into the decision-making but clearly knows you wouldn't have agreed and it would have led to an argument. He can't win, because you're going to argue regardless and accuse him of being controlling and abusive. You're coming across as the gaslighting one, in the way you dismiss his opinions, his decision-making and accuse him of behaviors that really aren't obvious in the situation you describe. Maybe the reality is different and you left out a lot of relevant information, but as it stands right now, my sympathies are with your husband. [/quote]
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