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[quote=Anonymous]The problem with most women (and some men) is they date to marry.  It's a bad way of looking at relationships.

Marriage is a RESULT of getting to know someone over a long period of time and realizing both of you would be able to live together forever.  This means truly understanding that person's real self, but the fake person they present during dating.

The issue is most women say they will only date men they "will marry".  Here's the issue.  You have to be in a relationship long enough to see that.  Dating someone 1-5 times and thinking you know the person is naive.  You're not seeing 75% of the real person in one month or even a couple months.

I have always pushed for the thinking of dating to be in a relationship.  Now, if that relationship leads to marriage - great.  If not, then you move on.  And yes, time matters but that's not something you can control.  If you're sole goal is to date only someone you will marry you will likely be alone.  I guarantee many people dated people and discarded them well before they got to know them...and a portion of those people would have made great spouses.[/quote]

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