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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH is responsible for grocery shopping on Monday evening. I am responsible for drop off/pick up 2 kids and taking them to classes. DH cooks once a week, and I try to cook 2 times a week for dinner. We spend too much money on carry outs. I try to do laundry on weekend, one load for kids, and one load for us. No one really clean the house, and I mean kids don't clean up after themselves because they will play next day. We pay someone to take care of mowing lawn. There has been no snow, no need to shovel in dmv area. If we need car repair/maintenance, we pay someone.

I really need someone to clean the house. We don't want other people to come in to do this job for privacy reasons. I feel bad that my mom offers to help me to clean and cook for us daily once she retires in a few months. She is 65. I can 't let her do that. I need house cleaning 101, how often and how long does it take should kitchen be cleaned, refrigerator be cleaned, bed sheet washed, hardwood floor mopped, carpet floor vaccumed, furnitures to be wiped, etc.. once I figure it out, I will assign some tasks to DH to do. I am not good at house cleaning and I hate it so much. However, we need to make it work. [/quote]

Does your mom really want to help with housecleaning? Because if she does, you should let her. Retirement kills people who don't stay active, and housecleaning is a terrific way to stay physically fit if you are doing it correctly. Unless she has other plans to move her body and stay physically fit in retirement, working as your housekeeper could be a great means to keep her from the typical sedentary existence in retirement that shortens so many lives. You should, of course, pay her the same you would pay a stranger - that solves the issue of privacy and will also give her more opportunities to grandma your kids.[/quote]

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