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Reply to "Married 14 years- Just Learned of Cheating in Year 5"
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[quote=Anonymous]Putting the most positive face on this, it seems likely that he got it out of his system and you "won". Anyone that cheats like that is a promise-breaker and might do it again. That doesn't mean you have to divorce. You need to line up marital counseling that is objective - neither pro-reconciliation nor pro-divorce. Don't catastrophize. Honor your feelings of sadness and betrayal. Your husband owes you full disclosure. Do not contact or seek out the social media of the OW. She is morally reprehensible as well and you will get no peace from contacting her or seeking out details about her. She is not your concern. I'm sorry for your hurt. Be brave. [/quote]
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