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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My friend (mid 30s) passed away almost a year ago. Her family celebrates christmas tomorrow. I'm wondering if I should text her a greeting or if that will just remind her of her dead daughter more?

For more - we aren't super close, but I helped her mom while daughter was in the hospital, and she asked me to help clean out daughters house.

I am really really bad with death and even just writing this is making me tear up. [b]I dont want to make anything harder for her, but maybe a nice wish would be a nice thought? [/b][/quote]

People who are grieving the loss of a loved one are already suffering from sadness, and this type of communication will not make someone more sad. 
I have learned this through countless losses of my own, and many discussions with other friends.

Your gesture is kind and rooted from love of your friend. 
I am sorry for your loss, and I’m sorry death is difficult for you (for everyone!)
Your friend’s mom may appreciate knowing that her daughter is not forgotten, especially around holiday time. [/quote]

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