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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You were too young to have this child and neither of you had the stable life needed to support a child, especially not alone. You need to grow tf up, BOTH of you. You are a new mother. You don’t need a girls night out when your baby is 3 weeks old, you were incredibly irresponsible to have a baby with a man like this and both of you seem to feel entitled to your before kids life even though there’s a newborn to take care of. You should support your husband’s paying job(s), yes that means going to his shows, and yea he has to rehearse more and play more if he’s going to be a successful musician; it’s not a big deal to take care of a baby by yourself sometimes when your spouse is working (and that goes for both of you). Quit expecting him to sit home and hold your hand every step of the way. Neither of you should be partying, both of you should be making more money/have a career plan, and taking turns minding the baby when not working. You chose this, now woman up and do it.[/quote]

Oof after buying the house in my name, no help and having two jobs until I was 20 weeks pregnant (nurse and bartender) to be able to come up with the down payment and painting my baby’s nursery and doing house renos while he was off practicing and playing shows all summer I am exhausted. I keep being promised things that he will not stand true to. It gets old opening up his car to empty beer cans in the door. How much can one person try and give until they break? It’s been take take take. Not with a perfect little baby in the picture anymore. I refuse for him to raised on chaos and in bars every other weekend. I finally got a night to myself after 2 months and I don’t feel bad about it especially after the traumatic birth I had and all the galavanting he’s been off doing including my whole pregnancy. There’s no reason your spouse and the person you love shouldn’t be encouraging you to get out of the house when you’re finally feeling better after something like that especially when they claim to love you. It’s 2024 and women aren’t men’s servants anymore especially when we bring more to the table on a financial level. If he actually cared he would get an actual second job and maybe do that once or twice a week to help instead of worry about party time. [/quote]

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