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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No one is this stupid.  This has to be a troll.  If you don't divorce him then you deserve how miserable you are. [/quote]

Unfortunately it is real. An abortion was scheduled but I couldn’t go through with it because I wouldn’t be able to live with myself. Now I’m just trying to figure out the best life for this baby as a whole family and if there’s any way to make it work. [/quote]

You really don’t have a choice except to make it work. Otherwise you get to try to figure out how to make a lifestyle of shared custody and financial sacrifices of a single income work because that’s what divorce looks like.

Problem you have is that you choose to build a life with someone and now don’t like who that someone is. But you can’t change people. Until acknowledge and accept this, you won’t be able to figure out how to make things work.

Last thing. Early babyhood is hard and it is constantly changing. What your child needs today will be different in a month and in a year and in five. Most of us make changes but we don't all radically alter our lifestyles for a baby. We fit the baby into who we are. [/quote]

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