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[quote=Anonymous]First of all, hugs to you OP. Every parent expects to raise their children to eventually live a healthy independent life as an adult. Its a rite of passage. I’ve seen my parents struggle with the realization that my 50 year old sibling will never be able to do that. It’s hard, but there are options. It depends on what city/county you live, there are wonderful group homes and services. Yes wait lists are long but start researching now, seek help from social workers. Of course as an adult your child will need to agree, but it’s a conversation that needs to be had, and if you plan to live nearby, you will still visit each other regularly. Another option depending on your income, the severity of your child’s medical issue and ability to hire a nurse - a cousins son lives in his parents in-law suite, he needs care 24/7 so they get disability income and other resources to partially pay for it. That way they can leave the house and breathe a little knowing he’s in good care. It’s emotionally hard, and I hope you have the support of family and friends. Good luck, just some ideas for you. [/quote]
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