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[quote=Anonymous]Ugh, this would drive me bananas. I mean seriously, I'd be contemplating divorce. I can't imagine living like this.

Have you had this conversation separate from a particular incident, when you're both in a good mood? "I've been meaning to talk with you about something - I struggle to get downtime because you frequently will start talking to me when I'm having some me time. Like, if I'm reading a book or listening to a podcast. I love talking with you and spending time with you, but I also need time to myself, so I find this frustrating. Is there a better way for me to handle this? What can we do so that we both get what we need?" Make sure you listen to what he says too - especially if this has been going on for a while, he may feel rejected or upset that you always seem annoyed when he talks to you.

You should discuss what the options are, but I would suggest dedicated times (maybe certain evenings each week?) when you are not to be disturbed, and dedicated times that you will spend together (like a weekly date night in?)[/quote]

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