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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Need more information.  Is she still in her home? Does she need assisted living? What are you paying for?[/quote]

She lives in a very small apartment in a high cost area. My spouse thinks she should move to a cheaper place, but where, South Dakota? She also gets SNAP but we found that she doesn't qualify for Medicaid because her SS check is $1,800/month.

I pay about $500/month for things like utilities, cleaning supplies, etc.

The anger isn't just from the money, but the endless history of bad decisions. I told her for years to get out of the house because it was sinking everyone. It's as if she tries to fail on purpose. [/quote]

Well if south Dakota is cheaper than yes.
But there must be some outskirts to the high cost of living place that she could move to.
Yes, she may  not want to do so, but if you can't pay for the additional cost anymore, she doesn't have a choice. It's not mean, it's reality. 
Do you have any siblings that can help out? 
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