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[quote=Anonymous]I think he is probably comparing it to the schedule of other parents off on the weekend. Does he have games or something he wishes you could attend? Maybe have a standing "date" with him for 1:1 time that works with your work schedule. It sounds like he would like to feel a bit more connected? 7 is an age when they compare a lot to other families. He thinks of the weekend as when his friends/classmates hang out with parents, for the most part. Maybe someone even said that to him, teasing? Do what works best for you, OP, and make a point to spend time with him alone regularly. I'd also have a standing date with DH once or twice a month, sometimes with other couples. It can be easy to kind of fall into parallel lives. The basis of the family is a strong marriage. When the little one is older maybe try a different schedule. [/quote]
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