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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not desirable, but if your father supported you fully financially (or paid fair share) for you as a child, I don't think you should be very angry. And I think funding family before charities is appropriate.... [/quote] Ah, so you have a transactional view of the relationship. You're okay with OP not giving her father money if he didn't fully support her financially in childhood. Got it. I don't want my relationships to be transactional or manipulated. OP should go to counseling to help her better understand her reaction, determine what she wants to do, set boundaries and ensure she and her DH are on the same page. Counseling can also help OP's DH understand OP's reaction.[/quote]
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