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[quote=Anonymous]I am coming to the realization that my sibling and their spouse are not only bad parents but they really aren’t good people. They just don’t care about being bad parents or about having a toxic household. I just feel so awful for their kids who are so impacted by it all and who have major issues as teens. I used to go through mental hoops to try and find good intentions or misguided rational for how my sibling and spouse act and treat the kids but at the end of the day those are hollow. They could do a lot better but they choose not to. It isn’t outright abuse that would warrant a CPS call. I try and tel myself other kids deal with worse but it is so hard to see their kids so impacted by their actions or lack thereof. I just feel so sad. I do what I can but they get very defensive at a point and then I get less contact with the kids. This is more just about the reality that people you love really aren’t good people. It’s hard to accept.[/quote]
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