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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with others. This is so common, especially for men at that age. They are afraid of not having someone to take care of them for one thing, but also with a prolonged decline, you mourn along the way. If the person were younger it would be different, but there isn't much time left to find companionship. A little different but I got a lot of rude comments because I seemed too happy at my dad's funeral and I didn't go into a profound state of mourning after. We were close. I saw him often throughout his 7 year decline and I saw how ill and miserable he was at the end and ready to go. I was so relieved when the time came and he was loving until the end, but so over suffering. I felt so fortunate that I could see him so much, let him know how loved he was and now I didn't have to see him suffer. Meanwhile people who rarely visited and family who went through phases of having no relationship with him were judging me.[/quote]
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