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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Omg I am so so sorry. You are not overreacting. I wish you could imagine seeing this from an outside perspective. One law enforcement officer said that rape is the most violent thing you can do to a person aside from murder. I am sure that you would think that almost no reaction of someone who had gone through this was an overreaction. Not even calling the cops and getting him locked up (which is frankly what he deserves).

Agree you should take to a counselor ASAP. You could even consider a hotline. [b]Maybe talk to your mom or a friend and don’t for a second try to not do so out of a fear of protecting his reputation.[/b] [/quote]

OP here - thank you to everyone who has weighed in. Ugh I just don’t even want to deal with this…I half feel an urgent to try to compartmentalize, and half and urge to do what you mentioned above (bolded) about talking about it with a trusted friend. I’m having a hard time just going through the motions of acting normal, and I’m surprised by the rushes of anger I feel towards him. However, I’m worried I’d regret it - assuming I do somehow work past this, that would presumably (significantly?) change their view of him and affect things forever, and I’m having a hard time sorting out if that’s okay at this point [/quote]

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