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[quote=Anonymous]Don't do it if you aren't sure, even if you fear it would wound your relationship with your DH.  Having a child you didn't want will REALLY wound your relationship.

I was on the fence about kids -- never very interested in having them but not committed to NOT having them either.  DH always wanted kids.  I put it off for a long time (I'm quite a bit younger than him), until it finally seemed like the right time.  Well, I'll admit it seemed more like a "good" time, since I can to realize there was no "right" time.  We got pregnant, had a baby, and it has been HARD.  Maybe if we were blessed with one of those amazingly easy children ("super baby," as we call my friend's wonder child), but we were NOT.  I love my little guy, but I definitely have days when I wonder why I didn't listen to that voice in my head that said, "Do you really want children, or are you just doing this for DH?"

I think I will grow into it more as the little one gets older, but if you really don't want kids, it is NOT a good idea to have them.[/quote]

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