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[quote=Anonymous]OP I get it. I feel the same, but I just want nothing to do with them and they keep wanting me to go back into my role. My mother should have stopped before having me. My job was to be the dumping group for all her problems and to make things look normal. Her favorite could do no wrong and I could no right. Now her favorite is a total mess and my mother just wants to take out her anger on me and make me fix everything. I accepted from a young age my family was cray and spent most of my days at friend's houses. I went off to college and rarely came home. I wish we never moved near them for husband's work. I spent decades trying to please and win love and now i am so over it. There are frequent attempts to suck me into their drama and I just won't go there. I know it's painful, but life gets better when you accept it sucks, it wasn't fair, but they just could not spare the love and then you focus on all the good in your life and only devote your time and energy to those who deserve it.[/quote]
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