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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There’s a child involved so it doesn’t get to be about you and your feelings.[b] Best thing for kid is a civil relationship among adults. Figure out how to get there or get out of the way.[/b] A mom has a right to know the person her kid is around all the time.[/quote] NP. All due respect, I don't think OP is the one standing in the way of a "civil relationship". The BM sounds unhinged and since the BF is setting up boundaries she's trying to find a way to cause chaos through the GF. But I agree that it's the kid who suffers. OP, would your BF be willing to do any kind of co-parenting therapy with BM, and then you all could let the therapist decided what your role would be in those sessions (I'm guessing pretty minimal at first). At the very least, offering to do that would call her bluff about her wanting what's "best for her kid." if she refuses.[/quote]
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