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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP. I meant “using” as in manipulating her bc he cannot go two days without external validation and also refuses to do the job himself. He has a light schedule and could easily care for the kid himself this week but despite his constant protestations that he wants more time, when faced with it, he panics and calls the cavalry. [/quote]

What does this mean - he has a light schedule?  What you are saying is he was working and needed child care.  What you are saying is it was your schedule time.  What you are saying is he was decent and took the kids last minute and needed child care while he worked.  What you are staying is this woman was decent and agreed to care for your kids so you could take care of a family member alone without bringing them along.  Why didn't you bring them if it were your parenting time or arrange child care if you knew you didn't like what he'd arrange?  Sounds like no matter what he did, as a favor to you, you'd find fault with it and you are the problem.

Instead of complaint, get her a gift as a thank you for helping you out last minute.  Next time bring your kids with you.[/quote]

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