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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you understand that as individuals, we all have different underlying problems, and that most pregnancy issues are hard to diagnose and treat? If you're low progesterone, you can be supplemented. If you have difficulty ovulating, you can be stimulated. You can have donor sperm, or donor eggs. But carrying a child for 9 months is an incredibly complex endeavor, and most of it, we don't control!

By all means, go elsewhere. Best wishes for you, OP. I hope you get your baby.[/quote]

That's the point of my post. They are willing to help other people and just told me, nope, can't help you. They didn't recommend any testing, were unwilling to prescribe common treatments for rpl.

Why WF take me on as a patient and say you can help when you then aren't willing to do anything beyond the normal, average IVF? Tell me that from day 1 so I can pick a different clinic.

It's not like I get a refund for the dishonesty.[/quote]

No, that wasn't my point at all, OP. My point is that they were probably upfront about what they could do, and you misinterpreted and thought they could perhaps figure everything out.

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Oh no, I'm a scientist in the medical field. I was very clear what the issues were and they said yes we can help. After the most recent loss they kept saying, yes, but we can get more embryos and very evasive when I pushed that that's not the issue. When I asked about specific, common treatments, they said it's clinic policy to not prescribe anything like that ever that I would need to seek treatment elsewhere. Why not say that on day 1? [/quote]

PP you replied to. I am also a research scientist in a medical field. Hello, colleague! I'm sorry you experienced that, but honestly I would have pushed back from the get-go, since I understand they did not offer you the treatment you were asking. What was it?
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