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[quote=Anonymous]I have been through quite a few hard times and while I may have vented to a therapist about those who seemed to fade away, I would never blast them, even without giving names online. I have been through a very ill loved one and I'm sorry, but your neighbor is inappropriate. She is trying to guilt trip people into giving to her "go fund me" by shaming others.

I always try to assume the friend who isn't there has her or his own stress or is just overwhelmed. I find it much healthier to focus on those who are there for me. Eventually I find out was the person who wasn't dealing with her own crisis or maybe she just isn't as close a friend as I thought. Regardless, there is no place for shaming even if you don't name the person. I learn that person is not a close friend and when they have their own crises I figure out if I can help and just do far less if the person decided not to be there for me.

Some people are limited. Some people just use you. Regardless, simply use the info, feel the hurt and move on. Venting on your blog is just obnoxious.[/quote]

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