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[quote=Anonymous]Well I’m Gen x and I might have advice even though you told me to shut up. I just want to say that being in an unhappy marriage with three kids is really draining. It won’t get better unless you really try to make it better — and even then it might not. It’s not easier to divorce when the kids are older —it’s harder because they are locked into a certain lifestyle and friends at a certain school and will really resent you if you rip them from their friends/clubs as teens. I don’t know how old your kids are but I would put a year or two into really working on your marriage. Put the resentments in the past and start fresh. Both of you. If that’s not possible because he’s truly an ass or because you just can’t make it work, leave now. Sell the house. Rent or buy a smaller house. I had a neighbor that did it and your age and I was in some awe of her but 10 years later she is so much happier and her kids are too — they adjusted fine. [/quote]
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