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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok,

We are 1 year post divorce. The divorce surprisingly was uneventful, we used a mediator and agreed on everything. She asked for the divorce after having given me a list of things I failed to do throughout our marriage. As soon as the divorce was finalized she started dating and seemed very happy. When I pick up the kids we have quick chats and every time I ask her how she is doing she reminds me how happy she is and make a point to point out how better her life is with her new flame etc.

Now she has turned into a complete maniac. The other day I told her I was going on a date if she could watch our kids. She said No. A few hours later I got close to 20 text messages quizzing me about this girl imposing demands declaring that our kids will never see her etc. Anyways I ignored her and I thought she was just having a bad day with her new flame . Nope it’s total nightmare. She is taking me to court to revisit child custody, she also thinks that I got a promotion and make more and therefore she is going to go to court for higher child support payments. And she is now also sabotaging my time with our kids. I feel like she doesn’t want me to be happy. If I cheated on her or treated her badly during our marriage maybe I could understand her nutty behavior. Nope. She has gone crazy.

Anyone dealt or is dealing with a crazy ex spouse? When you divorce someone isn’t it over? I am just confused. This cannot be jealousy because we are not married anymore. Anyways I hope she gets back to her senses….She is 42 years old, I don’t get it….[/quote]

Stop talking to her about your personal life.  She is not your friend.  She is your co-parent.

Tell her to take you back to court if she thinks that's best.  If she is dating, remind her that the dating rules also apply to her so what ever she sets, she must also follow.

Nothing helps.. the best thing that happens is the kids turn 18 and off child support and you don't have to deal with them anymore except social situations.[/quote]

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