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[quote=Anonymous]OP - BTDT, first thing first - get your own therapist who will help you and support you and any decision making you want/need to make regarding your marriage. I too went through marriage counseling, thought it helped, long story short, things went back to the way they were before and I was miserable for many reasons but the biggest was the lack of trust. I divorced, scared to death about my future, self-esteem was killed by my X's affairs, but 5 years later I am happier than I've ever been. Are my kids affected, sure they are, but would they have been affected by if we stayed marriage and were miserable - I think so too. There is life on the other side of divorce. Get your ducks in a row financially before you pull the plug (if you do). Good luck and hugs to you. [/quote]
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