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Reply to "Trying to recover from cheating spouse but will never feel the same"
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[quote=Anonymous] Put yourself first, OP. You only have one life. Don't waste it. This means that you shouldn't dwell too long on his behavior, because that will diminish the quality of your life, create resentment and pain. He is who he is. It's not your problem, apart from getting tested for STDs. In practice, you won't lift a finger for him any longer. You will build your career, care for your kids, go out with friends (possibly find a lover), and when you're financially ready... you can divorce. Or not, and have relationships on the side, if that's what you wish. Point is: you don't owe him anything at all, but you are looking out for your financial interests. Divorce can be expensive and contentious, so prepare wisely for it. But first you have to detach from this person emotionally and consult a lawyer.[/quote]
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