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[quote=Anonymous]Friendships have seasons and some die.  I had three bridesmaids, two lifelong friends, and one my BFF from college with whom I’d been friends with at that point for over a decade.  Had a falling out/drift away from the latter - I moved away from where we had lived/gone to college for work after getting married in my early 30s.  She did not reach out much, but we still talked/texted a few times per year.  I got pregnant and had a baby, I had to miss her wedding due to being 40 weeks pregnant and the wedding being an 8hr drive from my location.  I sent flowers, paid for a chunk of the bachelorette I did not attend when I really had no money, continued to reach out.  I had bad postpartum depression. She sent a gift when the baby was born but never called me or checked in on me.  It really hurt.  Final straw was I found out she was about 45 mins away from where we moved visiting her husbands family and did not tell me or reach out or anything.  I was depressed with an infant in a place I did not know many people.  That was when the friendship was dead to me.   I was never cold to her when we interacted randomly after that but I just did not care about her other than nostalgia from the past.  She had a series of bad life choices/events in her mid 30s to early 40s and basically has no friends to support her at this point.  I feel for her but meh. [/quote]

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