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[quote=Anonymous]You are in your right to find this untenable. I went through something similar during Covid with my SIL. My husband wouldn’t deal with it and it was making me very unhappy, to the point that I thought I would divorce my spouse if she didn’t leave (and I’m quite happily married). When MiL suddenly showed up and also had no plans to leave, it broke me. I hit my limit one day and told my MIL that it was affecting my marriage and desperately needed some privacy and everyone had to leave. They had 2 weeks to go home. Thank god I had that conversation despite how difficult it was for me. My wellbeing dramatically improved once they were gone and my husband finally realized how much their presence had impacted me. You have to set boundaries. You are an adult and chose to live with your husband, not your MIL. If your husband won’t do it, you have to do it. [/quote]
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