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[quote=Anonymous]Hey OP I’m with you and I feel you. Narc mom AND narc dad, went out in the world and found myself to be the flame that narc moths cannot resist. It makes sense as I was programmed early to be a fawning child then became a fawning girlfriend, desperate to be loved and turning myself inside out to please others without consideration for myself and soon resentful. I cut off my parents two decades ago but already had three decades of abusive memories locked in, so they are never far from my thoughts. I was surprised by how much it persisted in middle age but the more I learned I found it’s common - so many of us repress and try to outrun in our youth and eventually we cannot continue avoiding ourselves. I have days I’m very angry about how I was raised and how it damaged me. Some days I just sit in it. It’s okay to have those days. [/quote]
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