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[quote=Anonymous]I am 24 weeks pregnant with my second. A couple of weeks ago I  started having some complications and at a more recent follow up appointment was told to take it easy, rest as much as possible, and not travel. We had planned to travel to the in-laws for Christmas, but after hearing this we canceled our plans. I asked the doctor specifically about these plans and she advised against it. I am scared, in physical pain, and just having a hard time with this all around.

After telling my in-laws we couldn’t make it, including why, MIL reached out to my husband to suggest that he and our child still come because there’s no reason they can’t travel. He shot it down quickly, but I am really seeing red over this. It just feels so selfish to me. Like I do not want to talk to this woman ever again. I’m probably not going to say anything because it doesn’t seem worth it and my husband has dealt with it, but I am just so pissed. Am I overreacting here?

I also don’t know how to react when I eventually see her again. I hate confrontation so will probably pretend nothing happened, but I think this is going to stick with me for a long time. [/quote]

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