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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hi OP.

I have a 14 year old and my kid at age 12 (which was 6th grade for us) had gotten mixed up in the "fast" crowd.   Time to start really paying attention.  Verify where she's going.  Call and ask the other parents.  Look at where she's going on Find My.  Start reading her text messages.  Do not let her on Snapchat and if she's on it get her off of it.  They will do a lot of milling around at this age and you have to set boundaries and know where they are going and who they are with.  The drinking is certainly a thing and start having those conversations.  But your bigger issue is your daughter is wandering around and you have no clue what she is doing and she's lying.  It doesn't really matter if you never had any issues with her and she was "pressured into this".  Same outcomes.  Also, life isn't fair and the repercussions for this for a girl can be a lot worse than for a boy.  Good luck.[/quote]

Also if she's on Tik Tok, follow her closely or get her off.  They meet a lot of boys at other schools on that platform and then start meeting up with them in real life if you are in a densely populated area.  They will walk pretty far to get to other kids and whatever they want to be doing.  Oh and the sleepovers?  They're sneaking out and wandering around in the middle of the night and meeting up with other kids.[/quote]

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