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Reply to "If your parents lived amicably and then divorced while you were in college, how did you do?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Like others in a previous threat, I'm in a low conflict, friendly marriage that lacks passion and compatibility. It's hard for me to think of my kid having to pack bags and switch houses for the rest of her childhood. She's 7 now. Sure, I wish I could have the opportunity to find someone who truly loves me (and I'm sure my spouse feels the same way), but I would feel so sad for my kid who loves our intact family. We do a lot together as a family now--hikes and activities on weekends, nightly meals, etc. I think we're creating a warm, loving environment for her, and I don't think she understands that my spouse and I aren't happy together. We're truly good activity partners, so she sees us having fun with her on weekends, at meals, etc. We're not compatible emotionally or physically, but we married because we had lots of fun together and it felt like it made sense. We still have fun together, but we're not in love at all. I'm interested to hear from adults whose parents stayed in a low conflict marriage and divorced later in life. [/quote]
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