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[quote=Anonymous]It is a tale as old as time.

1.  Communicate clearly and often.  Do not just suck it up.  You will die a thousand deaths of resentment if you just do everything and act like everything is fine.  A person who cares about you will try to work on these things.  You are not asking too much.

2.  Find everything in your life you can hand over to him where you truly will not care if the rope gets dropped.  Examples I found in my own life...anything on exterior of home including lawn care.  Cars.  Anything technology related.  I would walk through waist high grass to get to the bus if the car was broken down and come home and read my book if the cable was cut off and not give it a second thought.  Find whatever your things are and truly mentally let go.

3.  Don't clean up his messes.  Forward him the note from the daycare.  Better yet, have the daycare contacting him with regularity regrading the lapsed vaccinations.  I guess he needs to get on the phone with your homeowners insurance and fix the issue.  DON'T DO IT FOR HIM.[/quote]

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