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[quote=Anonymous]I'd save the financial component until after you really dig in. Quitting mid-season does seem odd. Is it drugs, is it too much stress and not enough time to be a teen, or did something happen on the team or with the coach? Is he simply burned out and realizing that if it isn't leading to a college scholarship maybe he's pouring too much time into this at the expense of a more balanced life? If need be, and sounds like you may be concerned, talk to other adults in his life like the coach, the HS coach, his guidance counselor or favorite teacher. See if they've noticed any changes or have thoughts. Talk to him about giving you some real answers. Ask about how he foresees using all the newfound free time. And yes, at that point then also talk to him about the sunk costs into this club, but don't lead with that or he'll think your objections are only about the money and not what's best for him. [/quote]
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