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[quote=Anonymous]6 months more doesn't seem like a long time unless you have real bio clock issues (32+).  (Which do require respect.) Choose the decision month at a good time for you so you can move on to other positive things if you need to (summer vacation, not your birthday month, etc.).

If you really like him, why not say...."let's take 6 more months and figure this out."  Ask him if he can be exclusive for that time.  I think that's transactionally reasonable since you have an intimate relationship already.

Comment: finances are hard to fix in less than 1 year time buckets. Can you help him solve the issues somehow?  Resume reader? Networking? New business marketing campaign?

It probably won't hurt more in 6 months to break up than now.  In fact, you might move through the crush phase if he clearly begins to show more signs of cold feet.

Don't say I Love You until he's decided.  Showing and not telling feels almost as loving while not adding pressure to a guy who is not sure if he's ready to marry.  And may help you detach if you have to.

Best of luck for a happy outcome.[/quote]

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