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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]End it. He’s been very upfront, but he’s kind of love-bombing you at the same time. This man has all the perks of an intimate relationship with you without any of the commitment. And you are giving it away - free and clear. But he can always claim “Hey, I was upfront from the start.” No way he will commit, EVER, but you will get in deeper.

Definitely end it! [/quote]

I'm not sure it's love-bombing. We've actually had some pretty rough patches where I went through two sudden deaths and was a wreck, and he really went above and beyond to be there for me. He is also extremely supportive in general in ways that are not convenient.

I agree he has all the perks of a committed relationship. The problem for me is that I have all the perks too. And for the first time I have those perks with someone who is really easy to be around and meets all my needs very well, except for a title. I've dated around plenty and I've been in committed relationships before. In those committed relationships my needs are never completely met, there is always some major compromising.

At the end of the day, you are right. I need to just end things. I just have a hard time believing I'm going to find someone so easy to be around again. [/quote]

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